Okay so I know the traditionally agreed-upon definition of “RBF” is “resting bitch face” (which, arguably, I do have). But does anyone out there suffer from riding bitch face? I have had a strong case of it in the past.
I think it’s just how I look when I concentrate. I just look like I’m mad/upset/frustrated but I’m not, I swear! A friend once asked if I was okay while riding and then told me I looked like I was about to cry. I’m pretty sure I was just thinking very deeply about lead changes or something.
And when I’m jumping, whew. My expression is either super-intense-laser-beam-eyes or….this:
It’s super cute.
Anyway. In my lesson last week, one of the girls said she was impressed by how peaceful and calm my expression was on course. Um, sweet! I’m glad I am slowly learning to keep my facial expressions at least somewhat under control. It just makes for better photos. Not that I know that from experience or anything.
But usually it’s something like this:
And then just to prove that sometimes I can ride (mostly) pretty AND have a pleasant expression on my face:
Centered in the Saddle 
I make THE.WORST faces when I ride. If I’m not looking angry, I’m talking to the horse so my lips are contorted 😂 glad I’m not alone!
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This. Is. Hilarious!!! Ha!
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See if you can find a picture, any picture of German Dressage rider Isabelle Werth in a competition. When she’s competing she has the most severe RBF I can think of.
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Mine is awwwfullll!!!!!! I actually consciously try to smile now while riding both for pictures and the “fake it till you make it” thing. I find that smiling as I enter a dressage test makes me much more likely to laugh over mistakes than grimace and overreact.
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Good point! I always smile at the in-gate person as I go in at a show. First of all because they’re volunteering and almost no one ever is actually that nice to them, and second because smiling makes the body relax and the mind feel more positive.
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Ahaha I can so relate to this! My mum used to tell me to ‘relax’ my mouth when I was riding 🤣🤣
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That might not be possible! Haha, I can’t get over how I go around with my mouth open. Not cute.
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This is fantastic! I make a point to smile while jumping because it subconsciously makes me less intense (I think). Also, my “fans” always ask me why I look so angry.
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So true! A smile or giggle can do wonders for relaxing – if I can remember while I’m riding, haha!
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My trainer and always joke at me because in warm up I look like I’m gonna kill someone I concentrate so much. “Smile damn it at least look like you’re having fun” haha I am my face just doesn’t. MUST CONCENTRATE
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Yes! I always look soooo pissed. Like, sorry other people in the warm-up! I’m not actually mad (unless you cut me off. Then I’m mad.)
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Exactly!
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too funny! Why do we always look like we are having the worst time ever when usually it’s the exact opposite?! This is why I never much cared for sports photography in general- I always look horrific when I’m concentrating or working hard.
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Very funny! My RBF isn’t pretty but I also have an annoying habit of holding my breath while jumping…. not the best thing to do really. Then as we pop over the jumps, the air expels from my lungs at such a rate that it becomes a rather high pitched squeak! How embarrassing. My riding instructor is always shouting ‘Remember to breath!’ at me.
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I’ve seen instructors tell students who hold their breath to sing a song while on course in a lesson! Something simple like Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star, at the top of their lungs, to help them breathe, relax and not get too mentally “stuck” on what they’re doing.
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That’s a brilliant idea! Although I don’t have much of a singing voice so could be just as embarrassing – but at least I’d be breathing! 🙂
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